Suspicion and Accusation

Suspicion – The act of suspecting something, especially something wrong, on little evidence or without proof.
Accusation – An act of accusing or the state of being accused.

Ilang buhay na ang nasira dahil lang sa maling bintang ng ibang tao? Ilang tao na ang nabilanggo ng walang tamang dahilan dahil din sa hindi tutuong bintang ng madla o ng isang tao? Ilang pagkakaibigan na ang nasira ng dahil sa isang maling bintang o hinala? Sigurado akong marami at hindi mabibilang ng ating sampung daliri.

Hindi mali ang maghinala, natural lang ito lalo na kong hindi pa natin alam kong sino talaga ang may pakana sa milagrong nangyayari. Para hindi tayo mapahiya dapat, alamin muna natin kong sino talaga ang demonyo. Di ba? Mahirap kasi yong nakaturo na ang ating daliri sa taong ating pinaghinalaan, tapos hindi naman pala siya ang may kagagawan. Don’t be so sure of what you feel, hear or what you see because it will only lead you to nowhere. So before you blurt out your accusations, be sure first orelse you will be embarrassed.

Let me give you a very good example:

I received an email yesterday from a person who is not known to me. The content of his email was very short and frankly speaking I did not quite understood what he really mean. I skipped reading the subject that is why I got the impression that his message has no sense at all.

It says: on this site http://finance.eblogzone.com/

My reaction was huh? Then I clicked on the link and saw that the site is using one of my created theme and the site content was about finance whatsoever. Still wondering, I opened this particular email again and there I saw the email subject:

please refrain from republishing our rss.

Gush, how could he think I’m republishing anything from his site? Okay, I admit I have no writing skills but doing something like republishing article from other people’s site would not improve my blog either. Hey, I am not a complete idiot and it is NOT my attitude. Even if I have no writing style, I still prefer to write my own nonsense.

Oh by the way, I replied to his email and wrote this:

I had been thinking what you really mean by saying “I should refrain from republishing the RSS of your site”. I was puzzled at first and I really didn’t quite get the message. Are you assuming I am the author of http://finance.eblogzone.com/ ? Sorry to disappoint you but my site is http://lukaret.com and I mostly write in my mother language Tagalog. I’m in webdesigning and not infinancial whatsoever…

Beng

His reply: (original words)

sorry Beng,

Your link was the only one I found on the site so I emailed you to see if you were running it. It was a long-shot.

Apologies.

See what I mean by saying:

Don’t be so sure of what you feel, hear or what you see because it will only lead you to nowhere. So before you blurt out your accusations, be sure first orelse you will be embarrassed.

My advice to everyone:
“Before you raise your hand and start pointing your finger…be sure you are pointing at the right person”!

This post is dedicated to a very good friend of mine who’s been accused of spamming and hacking other blogger’s site. I know her so well and I know SHE IS INNOCENT!!!! Lumaban ka kasi and never let these two wives put you down.

Beng

Beng Hafner is my name. Well, most of you know that already. I am a mother of 3 and a granny of 3 cute kids. I am proud to be who I am and I am proud of the way I am. I am alive because I have a lot to live for. I have many dreams that I wish to reach for and I have many journeys to make. My life is like a soap opera, and you are the audience.

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