Comments on: Why On Earth?

By: charles

charles — Wed, 25 Jan 2006 19:07:23 +0000

I think that she is either desperate or plainly stupid. There are tons and tons of possibilities. She just needs to tap them.

By: Al Bjørnstad

Al Bjørnstad — Mon, 23 Jan 2006 08:45:04 +0000

HEI BENG,
I HAD A SIMILAR EXPERIENCE BEFORE TOO. EWAN KO LANG KUNG INIISIP NIYA YUNG IKABUBUTI NG ANAK NIYA O IKABUBUTI NIYA. I THINK SHE DOESN’T KNOW HOW SERIOUS THIS IS.
I HOPE SHE MAKES THE RIGHT DECISION.

By: cheH

cheH — Mon, 23 Jan 2006 07:02:24 +0000

ay ngengot ngengot naman ng babae na yan,thats mostly the results of ignorance,she feared of deportation bec. she is clueless of the law of the country she’s in to.Kapang init ulo noh benggay? meyron din kami sakit sa ulo d2 sa Munich,divorce sa german na asawa tapos nabuntis ng bagong boyfriend german din,ang problema hindi seryoso ang bf nya.Gusto na lang sana uwi ng pinas at doon manganak Susmio! I told her to stay and she should acquire socialhilfe and anyway,the authority will get that guy(her bf) sooner or later.hay, problema is everywhere nga ata! mainam naman dito sa pinay na to marunong pa naman gumamit ng utak kaysa jan sa case ng kakilala mo!

By: kars

kars — Mon, 23 Jan 2006 05:21:42 +0000

ang sa akin lang naman ate beng. sayang yong effort mo sa paghanap ng tulong sa government at yong pakisuyo sa ibang tao.

sana naisip niya yon :

PS. sayang di ko magamit yong themes mo. :-(kc, hindi pa pwede sa wordpress ang magchange ng themes na gawa ng iba.

By: Kiss My Mike

Kiss My Mike — Mon, 23 Jan 2006 03:26:40 +0000

I just wish walang mangyaring masama sa kanya and sa child nya. Some peopke are willing to risk everything for the wrong things.

By: tekya

tekya — Sun, 22 Jan 2006 20:30:21 +0000

Ate Beng,
I think reporting the matters to the proper authority was the right thing to do. Not that you’re meddling or anything, but because you’re a mother yourself! and if this kababayan will not protect her own, buh! she’s lucky to have a friend like you who cares.
I pray that the child will always be protected.

hugs ate beng

By: Beng

Beng — Sun, 22 Jan 2006 15:48:22 +0000

Thank you so much PinayHekmi. I highly appreciate your support. God bless you and your family too.

By: pinayhekmi

pinayhekmi — Sat, 21 Jan 2006 23:53:16 +0000

Beng I’m so glad to hear it! You know, not to offend your other commenters when they say you did all you could have done, or you did your best. I didn’t agree with them. The best thing to do when you think a child may be in dandger or being abused would be to help get them out of that situation. As easy as reporting it. That is all loving adult’s responsibility.

God bless you. Here take my virtual hand. You are doing the right thing!

By: Beng

Beng — Sat, 21 Jan 2006 23:53:09 +0000

day sha, thank you. i think this time i have to be merciless towards this pinay to consider the safety of the child. i’m giving her time to call me til sunday evening. kong hindi siya ulit tatawag sa akin. ako na mismo ang gagawa ng hakbang. like pinayhekmi said…fuck with the friendship. gerd is behind me kaya palagay ang loob ko na tatawag sa authority. this is a very serious case.

By: Beng

Beng — Sat, 21 Jan 2006 23:43:29 +0000

hi pinayhekmi,

i fully understand what you mean. reporting the incident to “jugendamt” (youth welfare dept.) was the first thing that came to my mind after my phone conversation with the concerned pinay. i’m still excpecting she would call me back, hoping she would still change her mind. if she wont call me til sunday evening, sorry na lang sa kanya. i’m going to call the authority monday morning. things will get very complicated but i’ll take the risk.

like you…its also breaking my heart and breaking my mind as well. i felt so uneasy i couldn’t wait til its monday…but i have to be patient.

thank you so much for your words…it has given me strength.