Nakakalungkot isipin na halos mag-iisang taon na kami dito sa aming nilipatan pero wala pa rin akong natagpuang kaibigan na tutuo. Hinahanap ko kasi yong ka wavelength ko. There are Pinays here but we have absolutely nothing in common.

Miss na miss ko na talaga ang best friend kong si Jojo. I love to remember those days noong magkasama kami. Like minsan doon kami nag almusal sa kanila. Wow para kaming true, imagine ba naman…it was a breakfast with champagne. It doens’t mean that it’s new to me. But the fact na dadalawa lang kami tapos ang setup ay parang may malaking party…di ba overwhelming?

Matapos naming ubusin yong champagne, napagtripan naming dalawa na kumanta. Mula tanghali hanggang sa dumating na lang yong mga anak niya ay hindi pa rin kami tapos. We really had lots of fun together, paano pareho kasi kaming mga kalog.

I know I’m not going to meet a friend like her anymore. Now I realized that having friends is not depending on the quantity but on the quality.


Beng Hafner is my name. Well, most of you know that already. I am a mother of 3 and a granny of 3 cute kids. I am proud to be who I am and I am proud of the way I am. I am alive because I have a lot to live for. I have many dreams that I wish to reach for and I have many journeys to make. My life is like a soap opera, and you are the audience.

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3 Responses

  1. AnP says:

    I know exactly what you mean. It took me 4 years to find people I can really call my friends here in Germany. It just isn’t that easy. To be friend with people just because you have the same nationality just doesn’t cut it anymore. YOu have to be, as you said, in the same wavelength.

    Goodluck to you. I am sure, you would soon find some friends.

  2. Beng says:

    Hi AnP, I am glad to hear we have the same opinion regarding this matter. It took me long to find or feel the real meaning of friendship.

    Best regards,

  3. misis14 says:

    what you wrote is so true. it is not the quantity but the quality of friendship. until now, dito sa area namin, i haven’t really found a friend to hang out with. kalungkot minsan but it is something i already accepted and learned how to live with.